4 Reasons Why Multi-Tasking Does Not Work– ColinMcClean.com

MultiTasking-FINAL2In theory, multi-tasking may sound like a great idea but here are some reasons to consider.

1) Quality vs Quantity – You may be doing many things and feeling accomplished but what about the quality of your work or service; is it suffering? Never take a shot gun approach to hunt a mosquito. It is better to have one satisfied customer than it is to have 5 unsatisfied customers. Clients want to feel that you have made them your top priority; but your lack of attention and consideration can leave you with a reputation of being unreliable.

2) It Can Lead To Burnout – It is a little known fact that the more you do, the more people expect of you.   I use to be a “Yes Man” always agreeing to do things for people feeling they would not like me if I said no to their request. In the end I became frustrated and eventually burned out in the process. It is okay to say no to things. You will accomplish more by working smarter and not harder. To accomplish any goals in life, you must be selective. Always remember, you are no good to anyone if you are burned out. 

3) You Are Not Living In The Moment – Have you ever, tried to have a conversation with an extreme multi-tasker? I have and it is very frustrating and exhausting at the same time. Every time, he would urgently ask for me to meet to discuss an opportunity or assist him with a problem. Upon my arrival, he would have me waiting about 20 minutes for him to get off the phone to start the meeting. When our meetings finally commenced, we were constantly interrupted by calls “he just had to take”; I often wondered why he had voice mail on his phone. This type of behavior continued because I allowed it to happen with the hope things would get better. In the end I terminated the business relationship because he did not respect my time. When meeting with people, do you steal their time or do you add value?

4) Some Things Should Never Be Multi-Tasked – Not everything can be multitasked. I remember driving to a meeting one morning and I was a little perplexed as to why the car ahead of me was driving extremely slow as it was entering the highway. Traffic was starting to back up and the conditions for safely merging onto the highway were becoming dangerous. Quickly maneuvering around the vehicle in question, I could not believe my eyes. The driver was reading a map that rested on her steering wheel, as she was taking a bite of her bagel with the cell phone in one ear and periodically checking in her rearview mirror as she was putting on her mascara. It sent shivers down my spine; she was a potential accident waiting to happen. I quickly proceeded to distance myself from her. Sometimes it is best not to multi-task if you it will cause danger to yourself or those around you.

In today’s society it is understandable to be very busy and having a number of things on the go, but try to have some perspective on the relationships you have and determine if what you are doing really adds value.

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How to be a super hero in 5 easy steps.

How To Be A Super Hero In 5 Easy Steps – ColinMcClean.com

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You don’t need to have special powers to be super; it is in all of us. I am often amazed about my son and how he embodies the characteristics of a super hero. For as long as I can remember he has dubbed himself as being a “super hero.” He lives in the moment of being all he can be. Even his posture speaks super hero. My wife and I recently got a good chuckle when were looking through some old family pictures and in each one, my son was standing under four feet was doing his Superman pose of legs at shoulder width apart, hands on his waist and his chest pushed out. For him, being super is only natural; it is a way of life.

 Here are 5 characteristics I have seen my son adopt:

1)Honour Your Word – Too many of us never do this and we wonder why things never seem to work out in our favour. The universe is a funny thing that has a tendency to mirror our actions and intentions. What you consistently focus on tends to come into existence. When you consistently honour word you will find that people will be more eager to assist you than if you never honoured your word.

2) Help Those In Need – No one ever gets to the top on their own. Even Superman needs a little help now and then. A comforting feeling I have about my little super hero is he is always willing to help others big or small succeed. He will actually hold a door open for a nation of people to pass though if I do not tell him to let someone else take over after the 10th person has passed through.

3) Stick To Your Plan – Always have a plan for anything you do in life. As the saying goes, “if you fail to plan then you plan to fail.” I enjoy seeing how my son is always prepared for almost anything. Before he plays, he makes sure his has all that he needs as seen in the above mentioned photo. I am amazed how much play he can squeeze in a short space of time by being prepared. What areas of our life do we need to stick to the plan to achieve success?

4) Be Fearless – Move out of your comfort zone. To my son, there are not boundaries, only possibilities. I constantly find myself telling him to look before he leaps into a situation to protect him from harm.  How badly do you really want something? Too many of us sit on the sidelines and wish for the one day we can do something great. Fear is a powerful inhibitor but it can be used to propel us further.

5) Live For Something – Every super hero eventually finds his or her purpose. It becomes their badge of honour defining who they are and how people identify with them. When a person knows their purpose they are able to shine. Know your purpose in life. Life is a journey; too many of us do not know our purpose.  When you do find it, you will be forever changed for the better.

When was the last time you felt super and on top of your game? In closing I will leave you with these words…

“Just do what must be done. This may not be happiness, but it is greatness.” – George Bernard Shaw

 

 

 

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